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		<title>Birthdays</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/02/post275/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sunday is one of my best friend&#8217;s birthdays. He&#8217;s celebrating on Saturday with dinner and then going out to the bars later. Background:
We&#8217;ve been friends for 4 going on 5 years. In all this time, he&#8217;s never been around for any of my birthdays. He&#8217;s probably visited me a total of 5 or 6 times [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How should I feel?</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/02/post272/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my best friends recently (in January) had an altercation with his roommate that made him want to move out. He told me about and we talked about it. I suggested that we could go apartment hunting and move in together since technically I have no place of my own. The idea was tabled. We never talked about it again because I wasn't getting the vibe that he was moving out anymore. Yesterday I come to find out (from twitter and eventually over lunch) that he and one of his friends have gotten an apartment together. Apparently it'd been in the works for about a week. How should I feel about it?]]></description>
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		<title>Starting a New Job</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/02/post269/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I started a new job Monday as a banquet server/chef. I&#8217;ve been a &#8216;banquet server&#8217; for going on 3 years now and I&#8217;ve been for more than half my life. Today, a customer that&#8217;s been by daily for the past 8 weeks noticed the new chef in the kitchen- me. He was curious about me [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Respect</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/02/post267/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm not huge on demanding that people respect me. I personally don't give a crap if you do or not. But I have my limits. You aren't just going to say any and everything to me and expect it to be cool. If we're working together then I demand respect. Recently, two of my friends keep disrespecting me as such. No I haven't said anything about it. Why? I didn't give a crap at the time. But I've officially capped my limit in my personal life. Professionally, I take a lot more crap because that's what customer service is. But personally, no. I'm tired of people that don't really know me telling me what I can and can't do. You don't know me well enough to make that determination. Do I tell YOU what you can and can't do? Fuck no. Why? It's not my place, I haven't mapped out your capabilities, and what the fuck's it matter whether or not I think you can or can't do something. I'm not your obstacle to overcome.]]></description>
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		<title>Where&#8217;s my life going?</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/02/post260/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 02:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a lot of friends. Most of them know what the want to do and are well on their way to getting there. Me on the other hand, not so much. I used to know what I wanted to do but in pursing it for a while I realized I really don&#8217;t want to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Have You Ever&#8230; had unrequited like/love?</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/01/post255/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:22:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever liked someone, let them know, an they blew you off only to start contacting you a lot later? How'd you handle it? Recently that happened to me with someone I met a year ago that has now started texting me as if I should pursue it.]]></description>
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		<title>Have You Ever&#8230; done something thinking nobody&#8217;s noticed?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:58:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been singing, dancing, or talking aloud to yourself only to find out somebody can hear and/or see you?On multiple occasions I&#8217;ve been singing and talking aloud to myself thinking nobody will notice because I can&#8217;t see them. And I&#8217;ve been wrong on several embarrassing occasions. Be it somebody around the corner you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Have You Ever&#8230; thought of apologizing too late?</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/01/post251/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever genuinely felt sorry or remorseful for something you&#8217;ve done and wanted to apologize to the person but realized that it might be too late and they might not appreciate or believe your sincerity?
Today I was thinking about that. There&#8217;s somebody I&#8217;ve known since the 3rd grade but senior year in high school [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reflexión Profunda: Selflessness &amp; self deprecation</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/01/post248/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Reflexión Profunda]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/?p=248</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I broke into someone's house. It was a selfless and self deprecating act to help a friend and his family when they were in need but at what cost? ]]></description>
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		<title>BtDubZ is back and anew in 2010!</title>
		<link>http://btdubz.bakarithomas.com/2010/01/post246/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 18:59:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[About]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back and restored to original graphics (I finally took down the Breast Cancer Month ones) for 2010, BtDubZ will now include two new 'columns'- "Reflexión Profunda:" &#038; "Have You Ever..." as well as more regular entries.]]></description>
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